Of all the exercises in Imago Relationship Therapy, we now regard Imago Dialogue as being the most effective tool for satisfying our innate yearning for wholeness and connection. Developed with my wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., Dialogue is the language of love in all relationships. Ultimately, the three steps of Dialogue - mirroring, validating, and empathizing - allow us to
                                              
                                      discover the other,
                                             grow into our potential,
                                                        and experience connection.

Originally published in 1988, Getting the Love You Want has sold over 2 million copies and has helped millions of couples attain more loving, supportive and deeply satisfying relationships. The 20th Anniversary edition contains extensive revisions to this groundbreaking book with a new chapter, new exercises, and a foreward detailing Dr. Hendrix’ updated philosophy allowing readers of the 2008 edition to benefit from his ongoing discoveries.

Listen to Dr. Hendrix talk about the updates
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